Kind of a slutty one. Which is leading me to this question, which you should all answer in the comments: what was your best sexual experience?
Actually, that was the best part. Most phenomenal sex ever.
(This may be too much information for some of you, but anyways....)
I was shocked that it was so good. Like really shocked. Normally when I'm bottoming, I sort of take control (mostly because I find that most tops don't really know what the hell they're doing) but I was just like "You do what you doing, cause this is amazing."I mean, it lacked all kinds of things that I find normally make sex better -- it was kind of impersonal, we never kissed, he never once touched any of my spots (but that's okay, because my spots had been getting all kinds of attention from people with no intention of taking care of the horniness they were causing...), there was no oral or foreplay what-so-ever, and we didn't even get into any of my three favorite positions at any point. Nor did we cuddle afterwards, or eat.
And, yet, totally the best sex of my life. I mean, first of all, I was not expecting sex to happen at all, and then I was not expecting anything like...wow-worthy.
Unfortunately, I'm also pretty sure that it was just a one time deal. Which is okay, I mean, at least now I really have something to compare other guys to....
So, I'm wondering about other people's best-sex-ever. Leave me a comment, anonymous or otherwise, and tell me a little bit about it. Are you still with that person? Did you even date that person? Was it surprising or did you expect that it would be good? Talk about it.
By the way, I will not be revealing the identity of this sex god to anyone, so there's really no need to ask.
Moving on, I went to Club XS on Thursday night. I got in free, despite that I no longer work there. This made me extremely happy and, trust me, it will continue if they want me to keep going, because -- and this is probably just that I was spoiled by Providence or maybe XS has gone downhill or something -- but, even though I had fun, it really was not that great.
I did run into Alexis, who is, to this day, my favorite transsexual. Even more favorite than the one who works the corner outside the Dark Lady, and I do love her dearly. :P I haven't seen Alexis in forever, really. She is pretty much the only person left over from when I was dating my evil ex that I actually have the desire to associate with.
And lemme tell ya, the gurl looks GOOD.
I got to see a bunch of my other friends, but nobody I hadn't seen for as long as Alexis.
The next day, I planned to drive down to DC myself but I ended up stopping by my friend Jason's house and we went down together. Of course, Jason is very A-List in DC so he split as soon as we got there. As I'm not A-list down there (yet) he can't really be seen with me for extended periods of time. :P
But I was hanging out with Alphonso (a DC A-lister who will spend time with me in public :P) and some of his friends part of the night, and my good friend Don was there. Don had disappeared for a while, but he seems ready to return. A couple newsflashes about Don -- who is also extremely A-list every where he goes -- he is looking into getting some plays he's written produced. He's also a pretty successful artist. Anyways, we didn't get much chance to catch up because he was wasted but nevertheless, it was great seeing him.
I am pretty sure I will be getting a job at Town (the club in DC.) The dancers make more than we made at XS. I might wait to try to audition til after I've been working out for a while. More on that later.
Saturday was extremely dull, with no job to keep me busy. Katie and I looked and looked for something 18+ to do and, around 10:00 found something in Philly at the 12th Air Command
. I was all gung ho, but Katie was, as usual, reasonable, and pointed out that the two of us going to Philly where we know nobody by ourselves was probably going to be lame. Plus, two hour drive meant getting there at midnight, and turning around at 2 am. Not worth it.I cannot wait to be 21. Not for the alcohol. For the being-able-to-go-wherever-whenever.
Anyways, so we hung out and my friend Billy came over and he hung out with us. We drank a little -- which I probably would not have consumed any alcohol at all if I'd been able to go out. Thank you retarded Pennsylvania alcohol laws. You've managed to cause yet another under-ager (actually, two, cause of Billy) to drink because we lacked an alternative after 9:30 pm.
Today, was very relaxing. It was a very good day.
And just a little bit ago, Katie and I checked out the gym that's not too far away. Actually, it's a ten minute walk, so there's our warm up and cool down right off the bat! It's also very affordable for college students, so it's looking like a very likely place to go.
Sadly, next weekend will be rough. No clubbing or partying because I will have to work overnight shifts at American Eagle. Fortunately, my paycheck is going to be amazing.
16 comments:
Ok..u asked for it..the latest of my 'messes' was really good at sex..i mean every damn position u can think of and more than once a day!! It was great. I've got a FEW years experience on ya but I can def say your hook-up sounded fun. But..no kissing..that would kill it for me although he coulda been a horrible kissser which makes it worse. To date..of course the most amazing sex would probly be the devin u talked about in a previous post ;) TMI ?! Oh well !!
Umm, ps, if I'm single next time I see you, and if you've moved on to another mess....could I be introduced? :P No, I tease, I tease...I can find my own messes. :P
Well I am not one to brag about sex, nor am I someone that has sex often. As May of 2007 was the last time I've had sex. But yea, so May is the last time that I can remember having the best sex ever.
Kissing was involved, oral not from me, and of course I bottomed.
I think the reason why I enjoyed it so much, is because he was exotic....meaning hispanic and I have never done anything with anyone exotic before. Which just made it that much better.
There are so many diseases out there don't you ever worry when hooking up with all these people? Exp. having such cold shallow sex where you aren't even intimate enough to kiss. That will damage your head. STD's are scary yall! Go get tested I have. But anyway I have the best sex now that I've been in a relationship for a long time once you are with someone you truely love it makes it that much better.
Graham - you never mentioned what was so great about the sex. Inquiring minds are curious over here! Do tell!
My best sex ever was with a Polish-Italian guy who was just very open and imaginative. I lived with him for 2 years. He also had lots of staying power and would take up to an hour to cum. He was gorgeous and a total turn on. Every thing he did was sexy. We did it in every position in every room we had and on every surface available. Unfortunately he was not marriage material or I would have hitched him in an instant. That is how good the sex was. Sigh. But it would have been a mistake. Don't marry for sex Graham. It won't work.
Okay, I'll talk about sex in a minute...but first of all, email me and I'll give you my address...because I'm expecting a HUGE SHIPMENT of clothes from Amer. Eagle....THIS WEEK. Size Medium, jeans 32x32 (slim fits, no loose or baggy)....got it? Hugs.
As for the SEX: I could go on and on. I find it absolutely the best when the SEXUAL ENERGY of the moment is way high. I love it best when it's natural, unprepared for, when nobody has limits/ expectations. I like it sweaty, dirty, nasty, naughty, lots of aggressive filthy talk. I'm into: pits, feet, sneakers, topping, arms up over a guys head, wriggling around while I pound him, licking and tantalizing him frim his head to his toes, squirming, sex in unusual places, Love boarders, military guys, long hair, alternative dudes, straight men...and the list goes on. And, NO, not that I've done all of this, but it's definitely my bag. Naughter and nastier the better. Oops, TMI!
Looking all over for your email address but can't find it....send it to me......I'm at alewispdx@gmail.com
Cody, typically I don't brag about sex either, and neither one of us gets laid all that often (though, you do less than I do)...but when you have sex like this, you gotta talk about it. :P I think I know which guy you're talking about, am I right?
Anon, I appreciate your concern but, first of all, I don't sleep with all that many people. Second of all, there's this thing called safe sex. Third of all, my head is pretty damaged already when you think about it, and I don't think hooking up with guys (ps, not random guys either) will make anything worse. Fourthly, I do get tested on a regular basis.
As for your great sex...I have always figured sex with more emotional attachment would be better. I wish I had someone I could have that sort of an encounter with. Congrats on finding such a great guy! :)
Sue, I think it was just that it didn't hurt. At all. And he wasn't small or anything, I think he just knew how to work it in better than anyone I've ever heard of. No pain, only pleasure. Apparently, that's possible. I never knew before.
It's too bad he wasn't marriage material, he sounds like he was perfect in every other way! I wanna know what happened to him!!
Lewis, I'm totally broke, so if you're intending that I need to get these clothes for you with my discount...I'm gonna need major reimbursement. Like, to the point where you should probably go buy them yourself. :P
And, oh my! Aren't you the kinky little devil!
Yes I suppose that some tops do know what they are doing so please don't give up on bottoming!
I'm a versatile top and several bottoms over time have complimented me which after hearing it on more than one occasion makes me believe that apparently a good top is hard to find. It also makes me angry that there are probably tops out there who are ruining the bottoming experience for boys and making them not want to bottom anymore. I know that the first time that I ever bottomed the guy just shoved it in and it hurt like hell, I'm glad I didn't stop trying to bottom altogether though because I realized that he just didn't know what he was doing and now I realize that not too many so-called tops do.
While I enjoy topping much more I certainly enjoy the occasional bottoming when I'm in the mood for it so I guess my suggestion to you is maybe find yourself a good versatile top who understands what it is like to bottom so is sympathetic but who has mastered the concept of topping which to me is really no big secret, mainly it's to be enjoyed and not a race and I just work over a bum until I'm accepted in and I don't have to force at all. I go slow and gentle at first and then if they can take it harder and harder I love doing that and can accomodate, lol. Sorry if this is too graphic but maybe it will help someone who reads, if you are going to top then don't force, if you are doing it right everything opens up and takes you in without a problem so take some time and work it! And if there isn't too much time for too much foreplay that is when you have to realize that you have to do it right with the time that you have but that's another story for another day, lol.
Hey,
Best sex ever was very unusual for me. It was two things at the same time. First of all it was 2 hours of amazing sex with him fucking me straight without stopping, came 3 times without so much as a pause, and second of all was when i crawled out from doggy style got him on all fours and did him in every way possible. And now just ask him how much of a top I am. Hell i havnt bottomed in 5 weeks now. And every time seems to get better and better. I guess that one of the guys that says that it is better when in a relationship is right. I have been dating him for 2 months one week now and it is amazing. I mean other than because of the distance he is the best person that I have ever dated and will love him for a long time to come. Even if the sex dosnt last, he will. Hope all is well and hit me up some time.
Axe
My best sex ever happened spontaneously. Amazingly he took control (as i was fairly inexperienced)I like the kissing bit especially. The guy seemed to like licking and he licked me in ALL the right places. I agree that sometimes some guys just cant get the sex thing right but when they do...wow.
Im pleased you had a good experience Graham. Take it for as it was...Good Fun.
I think sometimes is that good sex is a state of mind as well. If the guy is totally hot and there is a bit of 'connection' then...wow sparks can really fly.
May you have many good experiences like you have had.
Hugs to you Graham,
Kev in NZ
PS, I love American Eagle. I stocked up with some of their appareil while i was in Canada. I love their new deodorant spray as well. Have you tried it yet?
He had never attended college and worked finishing furniture, which was fine with me. But, he wanted to come home from work and just put his feet up while his woman would be a stay at home house wife to have his kids and do his laundry, cook meals, wash the dishes, clean the house, etc. He also wasn't very bright which given his other talents could have been overlooked. He felt I was being totally unfair in not wanting to take care of him the way his mom took care of his dad but at the same time understood how what he wanted was unfair to women in general. We parted amicably so he could find a "slave", which didn't take him too long. He was a very sweet guy though. Just not really bright. What a great lay!
I so miss those days of casual sex, just for the sake of having sex, often times not even knowing the guys name and frankly not caring.
YUM!
Whoa, answering that makes the whole charade of being bashful that much harder to maintain.
My best sex was my ex. He took control thankfully (I was very shy back then).. somehow fucking around in the shower was the best bit. He enjoyed licking me, and I enjoyed just as much - I find its a huge turn-on.
Best sex ever? it can mean so many things! I am mostly a top, so I dont have much experience (variety-wise) bottoming... My best BOTTOM experience was with my ex-bf, who was also hispanic and he KNEW how to move it. lol
As a TOP, I have had 2 ppl that where really good. One of them being my current BF LOL.
Random sex has rarely worked for me as something that has been unforgettable.
I do not think that the best sex has to do with what you do in bed but how much "in-tune" you are with each other. As a bottom, your MOOD determines a lot of how you perceive sex.
I wont brag about how good I am, (or how big or what not), but I feel confidence is important too. How good you feel about yourself or your body...
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