"All he left us was alone"

So, today.
Monday. Definitely Monday. Not so definitely St. Patty's Day, though I hope you all enjoy the holiday and hopefully with a little more boozing than I did (but I think enough of that happened Saturday....)
It was a frustrating day. None of my classes seemed...worthwhile, I guess. I was very honest with people today though -- particularly professors. It seemed appreciated though.

Rehearsal was almost a waste, I was in there for a half an hour. We found a shirt for my character, so that was good. And I expressed how I wished there was more for me to "play with" to the director, and he did a little bit to help me out with that.

So I've been thinking about this list of things I want and need in a boy. How impossible is the list? It's pretty awful, but here's what I've narrowed down to specifically the "need" aspects:

1. Must be attractive.
2. Must love being paid attention to.
3. Must allow me to take care of them a little bit, but still be able to take care of me should I ever need it.
4. Must be able to put a smile on my face even when I'm being moody.
5. Must not be as much of a jealous asshole as I am.
6. Must know how to calm my jealousy. (Which, ps, isn't that hard if you know what to say. A guy could easily learn this if they asked. It's all one sentence, and it doesn't have the Big L Word in it at all.)
7. Must love to take me to social events with his friends, or at least introduce me to them. (Make me feel like a trophy boyfriend sometimes, y'know?)
   
8. Must love to be taken to social events with my friends or at least be introduced to them.
9. Must be encouraging about my attempts to take care of myself, but not afraid to recognize when something I'm doing should not be encouraged and to say so.
10. Must have a sense of humor.
11. Must have a flare for living life, not just getting through it.
12. Must have a strong personality.
    
13. The most important one, hardest to find: Must tell me when I screw up!! Tell me when I'm overbearing, tell me if I'm annoying, tell me if I do something they don't like because either I can and will fix it, or we'll work around it, or it will be a deal breaker but at least there won't be any question of why things ended!

That's only thirteen things I need. That's not so impossible, right? Is there more to that list that I'm forgetting? Anyways, I'm a little curious....so leave me a comment to discuss...how similar is my list to yours? What is your list of Needs in a potential mate? Or are you still in the process of finding that out?

(Random Ethan Reynolds pic courtesy of his Myspace. It's beautiful, he's wearing a vest, he's beautiful. It just needed to be here. :P)